Dealing with a breakup can be hard. Very hard!
How can you get over the feelings of loneliness and emptiness? How can you get some sleep at night? What's it take to stop thinking about them, about calling or emailing or texting them? What's it take to keep from doing something stupid, something that you know you'll regret, like spying on them or stalking them?
The easiest way to get over them and move on is to reprogram how you feel about them in your mind. This is what happens over time naturally but you can accelerate the process with an inexpensive, $13, self hypnosis download. Put the download on your computer or Ipod and listen a couple times a day. After a couple days to a week you'll look at your Ex with fond memories and that will be the extent of it. You'll be able to happily move on with your life, looking for that someone new.
Your ability to move on will be noticed by all your friends and even your Ex. And will generally be seen as a very admirable and desirable trait. Could be just the thing to lead to a re-connect with your Ex if that's what you want. The old, everyone wants what they don't have syndrome.
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Thursday, April 23, 2009
Monday, March 30, 2009
The Easiest Way to Get Over Your Ex!
Before we talk about how to get over your Ex lets lay some foundation about why its so hard. First human beings live for emotions. When its all boiled down emotions are our true riches. And there is no way for a person to know the sorrow of a broken heart if they've never experienced a heart full of love and joy.
Emotions are triggered by our memories and this can become a vicious circle when we are dealing with those hair trigger emotions like from a broken heart. A memory congers an emotion which congers another memory and so on. Now much like grieving, time will heal the emotional wounds of a broken heart.
The problem is if it takes very much time we can do many embarrassing and detrimental things to our selves. When we are wracked by these type of emotions we feel like losers, like second class citizens. We let our health go bad, we abuse drugs and alcohol, we engage in other random relationships trying to ease the pain. This is why though we want to experience fully the emotions of the break up and still remember all the enjoyable times during the relationship we don't want the bad feelings to last for an extended time.
So the main things to help get over your Ex is to eat right, exercise and use your ears.
Obviously each of us should eat right all the time but especially in stressful times. Under stress your body needs more energy. Certainly you know that exercise is always good for you. But did you know that exercise produces happy chemicals in the brain and helps us improve our body image and self esteem. And finally the real shortcut is using your ears.
Not so obvious, but there are some great recording programs (MP3s) available that help to relax a person under a great deal of stress like a break up brings on. These programs are very easy to use. You download them to your computer or Ipod and listen whenever you can. Each recording varies but many are only 20 minutes long or so. Once the recording has you mentally in a safe relaxed placed like a warm sunny beach with the sound of the ocean and the feel of the sand the recording will begin painting a new picture for your minds eye to see. Once the new mental imagery is in place, takes a few days. Thoughts regarding your relationship and those involved will become much more pleasant and peaceful the whole process is very beneficial. After a week of listening you'll be able to see your Ex and the reaction will be nothing different than meeting any other acquaintance.
This is the power of your mind working for you or against you. Choose to have it work for you and get over your ex fast and move on. This is also a wonderful tool for help getting a great nights sleep.
Check out these recordings and start feeling better tonight.
Getting over a relationship.
Getting over a divorce.
Here is a testimonial page to see what others have to say.
Emotions are triggered by our memories and this can become a vicious circle when we are dealing with those hair trigger emotions like from a broken heart. A memory congers an emotion which congers another memory and so on. Now much like grieving, time will heal the emotional wounds of a broken heart.
The problem is if it takes very much time we can do many embarrassing and detrimental things to our selves. When we are wracked by these type of emotions we feel like losers, like second class citizens. We let our health go bad, we abuse drugs and alcohol, we engage in other random relationships trying to ease the pain. This is why though we want to experience fully the emotions of the break up and still remember all the enjoyable times during the relationship we don't want the bad feelings to last for an extended time.
So the main things to help get over your Ex is to eat right, exercise and use your ears.
Obviously each of us should eat right all the time but especially in stressful times. Under stress your body needs more energy. Certainly you know that exercise is always good for you. But did you know that exercise produces happy chemicals in the brain and helps us improve our body image and self esteem. And finally the real shortcut is using your ears.
Not so obvious, but there are some great recording programs (MP3s) available that help to relax a person under a great deal of stress like a break up brings on. These programs are very easy to use. You download them to your computer or Ipod and listen whenever you can. Each recording varies but many are only 20 minutes long or so. Once the recording has you mentally in a safe relaxed placed like a warm sunny beach with the sound of the ocean and the feel of the sand the recording will begin painting a new picture for your minds eye to see. Once the new mental imagery is in place, takes a few days. Thoughts regarding your relationship and those involved will become much more pleasant and peaceful the whole process is very beneficial. After a week of listening you'll be able to see your Ex and the reaction will be nothing different than meeting any other acquaintance.
This is the power of your mind working for you or against you. Choose to have it work for you and get over your ex fast and move on. This is also a wonderful tool for help getting a great nights sleep.
Check out these recordings and start feeling better tonight.
Getting over a relationship.
Getting over a divorce.
Here is a testimonial page to see what others have to say.
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